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Linde

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Moni, a woman can hope, or.
I walked my first 75 feet. Pain is tolerable. Most of it is the phantom stuff in my "penis shaft". I don't know where they placed these nerves now,my brain is still mapped for the former location.

I am actually looking forward to dilating, to experience the feeling of something inserted into my abdomen.

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Me too. . .eh. . .yeah!
 

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Congratulations Linde. I am so happy for you that the op is done and no significant pain to suffer.

Enjoy the celebration but please get plenty of rest.

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I try Pamela, but I didn't sleep at all last night. The pain in combination of all kinds of lights and noises, did not allow me to fall asleep.
I now got some pills to try to get some hours of Zzz's.

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Congratulations, Linde! Rest and get some sleep.
 

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I just walked 400 steps, and will walk two times more later.
I think the walking will tire me out to have a better sleep tonight.

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To better this, I walkefd for a total of 2 miles today. I might want to walk more later. I feel great, some dull pain when sitting down, but sitting on either buttock is pain free.

I want to be ready to drive home after the postop on February 5.
The packing will be removed in two days.

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Linde, be careful, overdoing will set you back. This is no time to go into training. This is a time to baby yourself a little. Don't over extend. You might regret it.
 

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Linde, be careful, overdoing will set you back. This is no time to go into training. This is a time to baby yourself a little. Don't over extend. You might regret it.

I think the hospital is being a bit aggressive with exercise as they are scared of dvt., I am still being limited to 800 metres per day, even though I feel I can easly do more. No way would I attempt 2 miles still hooked up to the drip and drains!

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I think of the pads that are worn down there, Allie. The rubbing that can happen can make things more complicated for one thing. I got really sore down there from the pads alone. I understand walking, but if one gets over confident, one can create problems. I'd rather avoid problems than have to fix them. Also, right after surgery, you can still be feeling less pain from things because of the remnants of anesthesia. Once that is gone, one can start to feel more hurt than you thought was there. I had a 9 hour surgery on my face, out patient, and for the next day or so, I was flying solo, on top of everything. My posse was so impressed with me. Then it hit! Just saying a word of caution is in order.
 

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Just talked with the doc for 30 mins. He liked it that I walked that much. I should the same tomorrow and Sunday. He does not feel that the pain was caused by the walking, because it was some kind of phantom pain, generated inside the VJ, and not outside on top of my body.

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This thread seems to cover upcoming Surgery Dates.

Mike aka Confused recently told us hers is in Kansas City on April 28th.

Today my surgery was agreed and booked for Brighton in UK also on April 28th.

I shall open a thread for mine on GRS Board in due course.

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Awesome news. I used to think it was pointless but here I am recovering so here we go
 

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Awesome news. I used to think it was pointless but here I am recovering so here we go
Maddy, my reason for GRS was soley to rid myself of a dysphoria trigger, which is was successful at doing, but it also opened me up to see myself from a whole new perspective. I have a greater sense of belonging in my female role now, and a stronger sistership with my cis female friends. I wasn't bothered much by misgendering before, but now I am. Now my conscious identity has changed and I am wanting others to acknowledge this. GRS has finally put me on a path to acepting myself.

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This thread seems to cover upcoming Surgery Dates.

Mike aka Confused recently told us hers is in Kansas City on April 28th.

Today my surgery was agreed and booked for Brighton in UK also on April 28th.

I shall open a thread for mine on GRS Board in due course.

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You guys have that as a kind of birthdsy party for me. My biological and legal gender change birthday is on the 27th.

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Mike aka Confused recently told us hers is in Kansas City on April 28th.

Today my surgery was agreed and booked for Brighton in UK also on April 28th.
CONGRATULATIONS Pamela!

That is wonderful news!


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Wow! That's shaping up as a big time! Congratulations to both Mike an Pamela, both on your surgery dates and sharing sharing it!
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Thank you Mike. Naturally we shall be thinking of each other on April 28th and I know that so many of our friends on Transrefuge will also be thinking of us both.

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