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TonyaJanelle

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Congrats fellow Packer fan, so glad you have it. You were born in Rock County? This can't help but help with the dancing! Did you go to the school of Rock?
I remember nothing of Beloit. Family moved to Janesville after I was born. I have a few vague memories of Janesville, we moved to Milwaukee when I was 4. I do not know of there are any Schools of Rock in Rock County. I believe it is named for the Rock River, which flows through Janesville and Beloit and then Rockford, IL on its way to the Mississippi.
 

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Congratulations Tonya! So now we can schedule our community beadname BC burning party. 💃
 

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Congratulations Tonya!

Sorry been stranger than necessary.

Burning birth certificate party?
Is that a thing?
 
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Congratulations Tonya!

Sorry been stranger than necessary.

Burning birth certificate party?
Is that a thing?
It's sort of a celebration of rebirth/name change. We ceremoniously burn all of our old ID cards and invalid documents, once our ID change is complete. Can be like a drunken frat party if you like 🤣. Not sure if it's just a West coast thing or?
 

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It's sort of a celebration of rebirth/name change. We ceremoniously burn all of our old ID cards and invalid documents, once our ID change is complete. Can be like a drunken frat party if you like 🤣. Not sure if it's just a West coast thing or?
Our authorities take back any old documents to destry them so there won't be 2 sets of documents. The only old document I have is my Passport, and they cut a section out.

Hugs,

Allie
 

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Our authorities take back any old documents to destry them so there won't be 2 sets of documents. The only old document I have is my Passport, and they cut a section out.

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Allie
That will do Allie! Old passports are flammable too lol.
 

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Congratulations Tonya!

Sorry been stranger than necessary.

Burning birth certificate party?
Is that a thing?
Guess we could make it a thing. Never really thought of it, though it was mentioned on zooms past...
It's sort of a celebration of rebirth/name change. We ceremoniously burn all of our old ID cards and invalid documents, once our ID change is complete. Can be like a drunken frat party if you like 🤣. Not sure if it's just a West coast thing or?
I'll save them for the bonfire at Moni's place.
Our authorities take back any old documents to destry them so there won't be 2 sets of documents. The only old document I have is my Passport, and they cut a section out.

Hugs,

Allie
I've got an expired and an in date passport in dead name, at least one dead name birth certificate, 3 "amended" name change birth certificates and a dead name drivers license. The driver's license has a hole punched in it to invalidate it. Not sure if anything is done to the passport.
 

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I don’t care if you burn the old one or not. I don’t care where you were born. I don’t care if you went to the school of rock or the Cheesehead academy.

I just care that the world knows you and understand you as the person who you truly are. You are a woman without question. You’re also pretty great person. Congratulations and being official. I’m still waiting on mine.

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I don’t care if you burn the old one or not. I don’t care where you were born. I don’t care if you went to the school of rock or the Cheesehead academy.
Maybe it's the DJ in you, but I thought of this

 

TonyaJanelle

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If anyone reads the signature lines on the bottom of the posts, you'll notice that today is my biHRTday. Four years ago I stuck an estradiol tablet under my tongue for the first time. In the car in the parking lot at Target about 3 minutes after I picked them up. I did the internal debate for 50 years so by the time I had pills in hand it was a no brainer for me.
 

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Happy birthday!
I had my 1st pill on 1st of November 2018. It was 2mg, and I just swallowed it. I did not know about the sublingual stuff at that time.
But I did not really care. I had my boobs already, and was full-time already. I just needed the recorded date to meet WPATH requirements.

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Linde
 

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Happy Birthday Tonya!

I'm not sure how to figure out when my birthday will be because the loss of testosterone and start of estrogen will be over a year apart.

Hugs,
Mike
 

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Happy Birthday Tonya!

I'm not sure how to figure out when my birthday will be because the loss of testosterone and start of estrogen will be over a year apart.

Hugs,
Mike
So many events it's hard to call one more important or significant. I have seven in my signature line and I could add my first visit with a gender therapist to make it eight.
 

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Happy 4th HRT Birthday Tonya!

I see our HRT Anniversaries are one day less than 6 months apart.

Hugs!
 

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Birth Certificate burning party. Interesting idea - I keep thinking I might need it but why? I like the idea..
 
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