- Nov 15, 2020
- Gender Pronouns
- She, Her, Hers, Herself
- Gender Identity
The message is shown in Google results. I got harrassed by people on some medias
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I don't know if it is sexual attraction, but some of my friends asked me that now that I have boobs (I have naturally grown 38 D), if I like to play with them a lot. It might be more a fetish driven sexual fantasy than any flirting?But my question is, did you experimented a kind of feeling that could let you believe your old friends got sexually attracted by you when you came out to them?
If they are true friends, they need time to process this, as well.Redraw you’re comfort zone. With close friends. Give them time to process. Stay in close touch, let them know that you value their sincere friendship, but crack off from any romantic or sexual relationships for a while.
Hi Jade, my name is Moni! Sorry, I haven't had a chance to greet you yet. I had a friend, in fact I was 'best man' at his wedding, but he was very much into an extreme binary way of looking at things. When I transitioned, he tried to be okay, but he mourned the male friendship we had. He was fond of calling me 'brother.' After a while, post-transition, he got more and more uncomfortable. Part of it was missing his 'guy' friend. He also would make comments about me being more feminine than his wife. I think he had a hard time seeing me in places like the pool. He was, I think, afraid he could be attracted to me. So all that killed the relationship. Your friend might have similar feelings. From your picture, you look very attractive, so finding guys attracted to you should be no surprise.OMG. I just had a 3 hours videochat with the best friend I had before. I feel like shit. He accused me that I have stolen his best friend he is so disapointed. he finnished the conversation with, who I'm I to tell you what to do with your life, you are the one who decide about it. It sux your old you disapearing maybe I will like the new you, there is alot of people at my work in your situation, if you decided it, I guess you know what you do... I'm so paralized right now. I was sure he would be happy for me
Jade, this surprised me too. Great support for being trans with everyone, but many said things indicating that if my sexual orientation changed, that would be a problem. So I'm 100% out as trans, 3% out as straight. Weird world! Sorry, your friends are asking the misguided questions. There is a certain role of educator we take on being trans if we want to have people understand.It's pretty weird that it seems for them a bigger concern than my transition....
Same thing I have experienced. Everything is a matter of sex or sexual orientation with a lot of cisgender people. Gender and sexual orientation are the same thing to them.Also, every of my old friend I came out to, are asking as first question: "So it means your sexual orientation as changed". It's pretty weird that it seems for them a bigger concern than my transition....