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Cassie J

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Hi,I am Cassie and a fulltime crossdresser of 5 1/2 years.Knew I was transgender in a way for a long time.First time trying on female clothing was when I was 10 trying on a step sister's dress which happened once.Then in my teens,a few pieces of my mom's clothes and never happened anymore.Finally 6 years ago,family saw something was wrong and I was in the closet about something.I tried to deny it to them and couldn't,my wife whom I am still married to finally did convince me to come out finally.Finally did come out as transgender in a way discovering I am a crossdresser.My wife took it well knowing I did go out with her dressed as female a couple times.She saw I liked it and helped me through my journey buying clothes and make up.Did convince me to get my ears pierced,she did my pierce my ears since she does this.My family knew I was unhappy all my life and this was it.They adjusted to it very well.It was part time and realized I wanted to stay as Cassie fulltime.My wife and I,she has been great about the changes seeing she has her husband back now happy dressing as a woman.This is how far I am going
 

Monica

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Hi Cassie, so happy to meet you. My name is Monica. I've been full time 5 years, 6 on HRT. I am so happy to hear of the support you have received. Your partner sounds awesome. My partner helped me as well. It makes such a difference to be genuine, doesn't it. Well, I hope you feel free to share whatever you want. We are a pretty understanding group here. Hope to talk more later!:)
 

Cassie J

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It has made a difference with my wife being supporting,she is letting me be me.The memories came back and a few bad ones came back.My dad whom I never got along with also abusive to me was harsh to me.Asked me why I never acted like any rough and tough boy at times.Smacked me in the back of the head too looking at anything feminine.Luckily I have my step father in my life.I have a brother and sister whom do call me Cassie now.Brother is 4 years older than me,sister is 2 years younger than me.My step sister,my age and saw it first
 

Confused

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Hi Cassie, welcome to the Refuge. Having a wife who is supportive is definitely awesome. Mine didn't start oout that way, but she is now. You will find we are a friendly group. Feel free to join in on our conversations so we can get to know each other better.

Hugs,
Mike
 

Linde

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Hello Cassie, welcome here with us. I was not that lucky to keep my marriage going. My wife left me about 20 years ago, because she did not want to be in a lesbian relation. These days we are pretty good girlfriends, my ex and I.

I can't really say when, and if, I transitioned, because I am intersex, and everything happened in a fluent motion, my body simply changed. But I live full time as a woman for several years now. It is the life I should have lived all my life, but better late than never.

Look around and ask questions you have, and I wish you lots of fun with us.


Linde
 

Cassie J

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Wife likes me dressed as female now.I have a couple daughters from a previous relationship,it wasn't easy for them at first.It did take them time to accept I am now completely happy.My ex whom I have them with,we are still on good terms and still talk to this day calling me Cassie
 

Donica

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Hi Cassie! Welcome to TransRefuge. So very nice to meet you. I'm glad you have a supportive wife and family. That's half the battle won. Congratulations, and see you around the forum.

Hugs!
 

Cassie J

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Hi Cassie! Welcome to TransRefuge. So very nice to meet you. I'm glad you have a supportive wife and family. That's half the battle won. Congratulations, and see you around the forum.

Hugs!
Also finding my true self which I found not going back to part time.
 

TonyaJanelle

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