Fight for self love!
- Feb 1, 2020
- Gender Pronouns
- She, Her, Hers, Herself
- Gender Identity
Linde, I appreciate that warning. I have that feeling presently though to a very large extent.
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I hear my brothers voices in my phone/recordings. That simply won't do! Perhaps that would have been a good answer for my voice therapists question?I don’t like my voice, but it’s not dysphoric. I hate that it confuses people who talk to me, and purely for that reason, I am enrolled for a 3 month course of voice therapy, though I question if I have the drive to make substantial change. I take @Donica ’s point that we do sound completely differently to ourselves than to others, and this is why we need help to find the voice we like. My ex had a saying “if you want it bad enough, you will make it happen”, and I feel it has merit.
I associate with mainly older women, and some of them have quite low and gravely voices (due undoubtedly to a lifetime of enjoyment over self care) but due to the way they talk, they would never be misgendered. Learning the language of women is more important to me than significantly changing my pitch, as an older person, I am not expected to have a high pitched voice.
OMG! I am in tears! I so need this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want to find out how to finance this procedure even if my current healthcare provider won't cover it. Digging Deep!!!!Found this and found out Rachel very happy with her result with him. Warning, surgical pics in part of the video.