Dick

[Maddie]

Richard is a lonely extrovert with his youth having caught up to him a long time ago. I met him and his grandson last year while wearing a dress and fake boobs(me, not them)

He has expressed interest in me, always offering me things like food, favors, rides, and furniture.  This week it's raw milk from the local Amish. (Rural area yo!).  I said no thanks and we can't have visitors here now anyway
Richard has alot of things going for him, but quantifiably more things that repel me. 

I am not experienced with men, but am lonely myself, and even before covid haven't had have too much interaction outside of trans forums.
Now we've been video calling.  This and Skyping are new to me.

Pretty sure he wants to show me his penis.
He's been around the block and no doubt has concerns that showing off his big weenie might be construed as harassment by Ms Maddness...

I'm pretty sure I don't want to see it, though considering it as a possible step forward in my transition.

 

[Katie]

I wouldn't get yourself into a situation that might be hard to get out of. While you might see it as a step in transition, he might see it as an invitation to be way more involved in your life than you may like.

Heed Christine's advice; she is right on this. Stay safe and be cautious.

 

[Maddie]

Thanks Christine and Katie!
You are two of my favorite forum peeples, and there is high probability that I will follow your advice

Dick has really not been a problem for me...though others around my vicinity have been.

My middle age immaturity is showing..
Kind of hoping this can turn into a fun thread. 

Gonna give this some time.. i know im not the only one who sees potential here... 

 

[Linde]

Maddie, I have to chime in with the others, say clear of any guys like him.  He sounds to be some sort of a chaser, and you might be just a piece of flesh fo him to service his fetish.
A while go, I made the mistake and mentioned on a dating site that I lived part of my life as a guy, and I got almost 100 unsolicited pictures of naked penisses in any state of erection.  This stuff is not really fun, and made me to quit that site.  I'd rather stay alone that having more naked pesnises in my life!

Stay safe and stay away from those people!

Hugs
Linde

 

[Deleted]

Well Maddie, I think you already figured out that Dick is pushing your buttons to see how far he can get. Since he continues to repulse you, and then keeps on doing it, it's certainly time to drop him like a hot rock. 

 

[Maddie]

I'm not leading him on, and he hasnt contacted me again since I declined his raw Amish milk offer.

Honestly thought it was funny thing to post. 

I don't get out much..
(rimshot)

 

[Monica]

I'm sorry, I don't offer a blank 'run' comment. Is he  rude? Is he being inappropriate? Did he ask you if you want to see it? If yes, then I would steer away. I don't have enough info to tell if you are just talking about a lonely older guy. Does he know your story? I think it is an interesting post Maddie! Maybe he is just harmlessly flirting. My father in law used to do it with young waitresses all the time and he meant nothing by it. I'm on the fence here Maddie. Like the new Avatar btw.

If he offers pasteurized milk, well, that's a keeper! lol

 

[Maddie]

Thank you ladies. Moni Im glad you like my action pic
I trust my gut, and I am not worried about Dick the way I am about another individual here who I try to avoid.  If anything, he'd be the guy i'd call locally if I was imminently afraid of the other one.  However I still feel slightly repelled and will trust my gut to take this no further with him 1 on 1.  He and his grandson are people I see and interact with anyway (pre-covid), even if we don't talk on the phone.

Richard is several things, including a gentleman. In that he's not pressured me at all, nor come on too strong.  I could do alot worse (hopefully better though!).  This dynamic is new to me, and I was kind of reading into his mind too much.  I posted here to vent in fact because I'm not ready to do anything about it. Want to laugh about it! But I probably shouldn't do so at Dick's expense.

I'm not going to lead Dick on.
Nor will I be churning Amish butter.

 

[Monica]

[member=167]Maddie[/member] , if you were to do something with someone, 'slightly repelled' is probably not a starting point. lol All I'm saying is that because someone is friendly, perhaps a little awkward, doesn't make them a creep. I do agree that caution is smart with anybody. The smooth, handsome types are probably more likely to be the real creeps. I'm glad you are not laughing at his expense. Trans people if anyone should be sensitive to that.

 

[MadameDuFromage]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lYSOmYyNHpU

 

[Monica]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lYSOmYyNHpU

Classic!

(Gentle Ben would be proud of Ron Howard's brother, Clint. )

 

[Maddie]

Woody: "I dunno, I've seen bigger.."