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Monica

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Hi Flint, welcome to TR! (Transrefuge)

Being of the human kind of critters, yeah, we do try to get along, live up to expectations, not disappoint others. But after trying to belong and time after time it does not work, it gets time to finally put the foot down and live for ourselves, as ourselves. I've done the give it all I can in stages, but I've finally done it. Voice was my final barrier.

Denise, I'm so happy you like your therapist. I agree about how much you can get from forums. It has helped me through so much.
 

OzGirl

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I agree 100% it’s nice to have a support system . Wouldn’t it be great if we could do jam sessions where you could set up a weekend getaway and have hands on makeup, fashion, coping sessions etc.

@Flint72 , we do run zoom sessions Friday and Saturday nights (US time) and are looking at a midweek session as well. At these meetings we do share ideas in real time and provide support when needed, but mostly they are about connecting with like minded people!

Hugs,

Allie
 

Denise s.

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Linde, 30 years ago I was living fulltime before I had therapist issues and when I put
Transitioning away but the last 2 years its getting very strong and I don't want to wait anymore.im done and the anxiety is getting unbearable
 

Linde

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Linde, 30 years ago I was living fulltime before I had therapist issues and when I put
Transitioning away but the last 2 years its getting very strong and I don't want to wait anymore.im done and the anxiety is getting unbearable
I get you, Denise. Because of my intersex condition, I nevrr fit really in, everybody could see that I am different. I dhould have grown up as a girl ,but was nade into a guy. But I was socialized as a male, and male was the only thing I knew how to be.
I should have had the guts to change this, but I was afraid to do so, because I did not know how. I was lucky and found a wonderful wife, and sheiked me the wsy I was. 36 years later,the marriage fell appart, and hrre I was again , the biological oddball, but almost 40 years older.
I finally decided that it is time to give up trying to be a guy, specifically after testing showed that I always was female, and slowly transitioned into the woman I am.
I feel as female so much better, because for the first time my chromosomes, my body , and my mind all meet, and I feel like myself.
Late in my life, but I hope I have a few happy years in front of me. Everything just feels right now.

Linde
 
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