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Came out finally about something

JessicaM

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Came out about something and it was due.During my transition,I could not make up my mind on my sexual orientation.It was finally on Monday night I came out being attracted to other pre op transsexual women.Since my girlfriend Gretchen started her transition lately which is going well,it made me realize I am attracted to other pre op transsexual women.My family fully accepts it also supportive.Gretchen,she is cool about it and did decide she is attracted to pre op transsexual women too.Gretchen and I love it,win/win for both of us.It was last month I took my time thinking it over and realized I was never attracted to men and women.I was attracted to other pre op transsexual women like me after Gretchen came out to me
 

OzGirl

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Congratulations on realising your orientation Jessica! So many of us go through years of confusion and some never figuring this out, and it can create quite a bit of stress. We have seen successful relationships between trans people as they have a basic understanding of each other. I am firmly asexual, and not attracted to anybody, but I have a friendship relationship with my ex, unfortunately it doesn't include hugging, which I really miss.

Hugs,

Allie
 

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If Gretchen has GCS, how would you feel? I don’t know if that is in her plans, but it’s something you may want to consider.
 

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Congratulations on realising your orientation Jessica! So many of us go through years of confusion and some never figuring this out, and it can create quite a bit of stress. We have seen successful relationships between trans people as they have a basic understanding of each other. I am firmly asexual, and not attracted to anybody, but I have a friendship relationship with my ex, unfortunately it doesn't include hugging, which I really miss.

Hugs,

Allie
Well heck I wish I could hug you!
 

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Donica

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Congratulations Jessica. I tend to lean more towards being lesbian too. But I have to admit, after bumping into a handsome hunk of a young fireman, I'm still sexually confused. Time will tell.

Hugs!
 

Katie

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Gretchen has made the choice not to have the GCS already
Then that is a hurdle you will never need to negotiate. That sounds like a good situation for the both of you.
 

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Congratulations Jessica. I wresteled with sumilar feelings, but I came to the conclusion thst a preop transwoman would not be a good partner for me.
I have a very strong lesbian orientatiin, and preop would just not fit into this scheme of mine.
I wish you guys lots of luck and happiness.

Hugs
Linde
 
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