- Jul 8, 2020
The wife of an online friend posed this question to me recently and I’ve been struggling with it: She said (essentially, I’m paraphrasing), since you aren’t going to transition, you will never have the woman’s body that you dream about, can you accept yourself as a feminine male? My mind has been spinning ever since, not being too sure even what a feminine male is (but probably agreeing that I am one because I wear panties every day, have a lot of personality traits thought of traditionally as feminine, and I love “girly” things). Seeing myself as a feminine male rather than trans would be a mindset shift. I’m wondering if it is more realistic? Is a non transitioning mtf transgender person the same as a feminine male? Does it matter how I think of myself? Yeah — it kinda does — I need to have an identity. I “googled” feminine man and was surprised to find a number of references, but mostly garbage. Thoughts?