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A Chain of Broken Links - My Life in scattered fragments (beware the swears)

Donica

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I'm sorry you are going through all of this Collie. I wish I had the magic words that would turn all of this into a positive for you. The truth is, we all put up a front/mask that we have everything well under control, but that's probably the biggest lie on the planet. All of us are uncertain of what's around the corner, and in a similar state of denial and self harm. And if anyone tells you otherwise, they're a narcissist. So long as you keep refusing to give in, you have already won the battle. That's the big secret. Keep moving, keep pushing, especially if it's (and I hate this dumbass cliche, but..) one step forward and two steps back. You pick yourself up, dust yourself off and take three steps forward next time. That's the person, the strength, the tenacity I see in you. Things that are out of your control are just that. They are out of your control, and the only energy one should waste on such things is to archive the lessons learned. (WOW! That sounded corny didn't it) Well, for lack of better magic words I was hoping to give... You'll be fine, and TR is a far better place with you here.

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NicoleT

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It can be so hard to figure out life. It always seems to be a roller coaster of up-and-down. Just take everything step-by-step don’t get too far ahead of yourself, do what you need to do now to get to the next day or the next week. You have a lot to take on right now with getting a job and establishing yourself. Once you have a job it will make things easier on you.

Thinking too much can drive you crazy but I can also be good to self reflect. You described feelings all the time of wanting to be the opposite sex. Only you truly know, but it does sound very much like gender dysphoria. Your time experiment some. You’re going to find your way. I am always here.

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Nicole
 
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